The Walk of Fame

So while I'm in LA of course I'm doing all the touristy things (you can check them out on my daughter's vlog if you're interested which is here https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=S1EOp_EeN00&app=desktop) and today we went to see the walk of fame on Hollywood Boulevard. It's amazing how long in each direction it stretches but I managed to find my favourite movie star (Bruce Willis) and my favourite composer (Hans Zimmer) and it got me thinking about the peculiar nature of fame. Here, more so than anywhere else I've visited, fame and the things it brings are at the forefront of everything, from the guys on Hollywood Boulevard offering tours of celebrity homes, to the designer shops, to the forbidding signs all round Beverly Hills that armed guards patrol 24/7. Of course we'd all like the lifestyle that comes from being a celebrity - not to have to do the 9 to 5 grind in a job that might not be your dream job, to be rich enough to never have to worry about money, to have the time and means to pursue those dreams - but with fame comes a heavy cost of not being able to just walk down the street, to being subject to the media machine watching your every move and broadcasting to the world things you'd maybe rather keep hidden, to the downright scary tales you hear about celebrity stalkers.  So why then do so many court it? 

Maybe because we all want to be liked and accepted and, going right back to school, who wouldn't rather have been a popular than not? Maybe too there's an element of wanting to leave some kind of a legacy behind to show that we were here and that we made an impact on the world in some way. But actually you don't have to be famous to do that - you can make an impact on someone through something as small as smiling at them. Doing some research for a short story last year I stumbled across an article about a guy who survived a suicide attempt when he jumped off a bridge. When he recovered he completely changed the direction of his life and became a motivational speaker. The most chilling thing he said was that he told himself as he walked half way across the bridge, if one person looked at him and smiled, he wouldn't jump.

Of course living in constant sunshine here in LA helps everyone stay cheerful, but they are really friendly and chatty and smiley and we haven't stopped smiling since we got here. It's something I'm definitely taking home with me.